November 29, 2004 - Dr. Henry Cloud Part 5 of a 5 part series 'Nine Things You Simply MUST DO'. Be Humble/Upset the Right People If you were asked to list traits that build success in business, marriage, child-rearing, and other arenas of life, it may not even occur to you to put down “humility.” Yet “Be humble” rates right up there as one of Dr. Cloud’s “Nine Things You Simply Must Do.” Real humility produces a frame of mind that we all need if we are to experience long-term, integrated success in all areas of life. And finally, we hope the ninth principle, “Upset the right people,” will get you thinking. How do you evaluate what your critics say about you? What guides you in making decisions—are you free to follow your internal compass, or is your course determined by the opinions of others? This last principle can set you free, free, free at last!—free to do the right thing with confidence. MNS-678